Masturbation
When I wrote my list of things that ease depression last week, a certain Sage left a comment suggesting that masturbation might help. Sage, by the way, lists one of his interests on his blog profile as "clits (big or small)".
Well whatever blows your hair back Sage. Been there done that. Other than 10 seconds of intense bliss, the depression returns in about the same time it takes for The Main Man to go soft again. In fact, if anything, it leaves me with a kinda empty feeling afterwards. Not that I've off-loaded a ton of Y chromosones (half a ton maybe) but empty nevertheless.
But real sex. That's different. Real live fuckin. That does the trick for me. A good body massage also works. Beg, borrow and steal to get one.
What about the ladies? Does masturbation work for you when you're down? Pray tell us, this is only cyberspace you know... anonymity guaranteed.
Sorry for this. I'm in a wicked frame of mind and realise that some people prefer not to talk about the Master Secret. (a little piece of concrete poetry BPG did a year ago).
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Seems like an internal switch flicked in the last 24 hours. Was probably the brisk walk on the beach yesterday. The result: "Pretty Shitty" exited. "In-the-Pink" entered.
0 sex drive when i'm depressed. does nothing for me.
ReplyDeletesometimes - not always- a good rowdy roll in the hay can seem to flip the switch if Im in the process of going down. It can send me back up for a while. Not forever but for a while. If Im already down then probably not. Masturbation>> blah
ReplyDeleteNo, masturbation doesn't do anything when depressed...and not much when not depressed!! :P With a partner is always better...but that doesn't work either when depressed.
ReplyDeletewhy does a man with two wives need to masturbate anyway??
ReplyDeleteMaybe they like each other a bit more than they do him...good cover. ;)
ReplyDeleteIs a penis an oversized clit or is a clitoris a dwarf penis?
ReplyDeleteThe bible says that Eve was made from Adam's rib. My genetics professor said that men were modified females. So a penis would be a huge clitoris, I guess.
ReplyDeleteMage
bi-polar guy said we girls could remain anonymous - so we did
ReplyDelete'Tis true...a large clitoris is a physical sign of being intersexed.
ReplyDeleteMasturbation never fails to cheer me up! Ever since I was 6 years old my philosophy has ben "when in doubt, masturbate!!!" Not that sometimes a warm male tongue or that other thing you guys got doesn't feel good but sometimes you just got to make do with what you got if you get my drift.
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